SCENARIO 1

Natasha (17) tells her sister, Alyssa (19) that her new boyfriend, Jake, is pressurIng her to have sex with him because he’s aware that she’s already had sex with a previous boyfriend, Luke.  But Natasha is hesitant to repeat what she considers was a mistake and does not want to have sex with Jake.  You’re Alyssa. What do you say to Natasha?

A.  Sex with Jake will help you get over Luke completely.  You may even make him jealous…or pay him back for dumping you. That would be great fun, won’t it?

B.  Don’t get pressured into repeating a mistake. It’s good to learn from past experiences and be aware of what really matters in a relationship.  I’m proud of you.

C.  Jake may leave you because he feels you don’t love him as much as you loved Luke. In any case, you’re not a virgin and you could hold on to Jake, if you have sex with him. Just use protection.