STUFF YOU SHOULD KNOW ABOUT GUYS!!
By Edmund Grey of De La Salle University

Guys like girls who are, as the saying goes, "ladies on the streets but freaks in the sheets".... We like a girl who is nice, proper -- and naughty! The problem is that most girls defy definition....and guys who attempt to define them, are sure going to be missing out on the best!

Guys also get kilig. Yes, it's true....very true!

Some guys, dare I say most guys, are embarrassed to buy condoms or the like...actually, we should be embarrassed to get STD/HIV or a girl pregnant...why don't we just ensure that we use protection and avoid the worst embarrassment? And girls, why don't you just ensure that guys use protection?

Guys like girls who excel in "guy stuff" -- the expert driver, the billiards player, or the gamer is popular with guys. But girls, just remember not to try too hard to be one of the guys, or else:
- Guys will treat you as a buddy making your stock value drop 7 notches

OR

- Guys will harass you just because you compete with them too well!
Guys are just as judgmental as girls....and more than confused in their judgments! When a girl enters a bar in a skimpy skirt, tight jeans or a low cut blouse, there will certainly be several male reactions.....casual, chauvinistic, witty and plain dumb......I'll leave you guessing, cause I am too! But do remember -- you will be looked at, and there's no escaping that!

Guys "talk" too. We know what's going around even if we feign ignorance.
Guys are well into the latest gossip -- as much as, if not more than, girls.

Ever wonder how we get information about....girls?
Guys manipulate and deceive...... we'll tell a girl everything she wants to hear in order to get her into bed -- or, just get another shot at her. So girls, remember that when a guy says he's willing to "sacrifice" for you, it isn't quite a selfless sacrifice he has in mind!

And YES....there still are a lot of "assholes" -- guys who slap their girls or strangle them in blind jealousy, guys who drug girls or frame girls just for their pleasure.....or to get even. And, there are guys who behave possessively about their girls......Girls will do themselves an immense favor if they avoid such guys.

Guys are just as emotional and sensitive as girls too. Guys can cry into their drinks, isolate themselves, and yearn for love and understanding. Guys are also in touch with their inner being in the world of art and literature. You'll be surprised to find that even those "macho" guys in the gym are actually capable of writing fine poems, telling you something about Shakespeare and expressing their opinions on good art and music.

Guys are gentle, caring and, more often than not, harmless creatures. Yes, I know it's a bit difficult to believe but hey, it's true. So, don't stereotype them and don't pre-judge.

And incidentally, guys at times want to be taken care of -- they like getting hugs from their lady love....they kind of enjoy getting courted once in a while!

Most importantly, guys have started respecting the rights and preferences of women......and, just need to be made aware of and educated about such matters, so that they question traditional male concepts.
So, don't despair! "Gentlemen" are not quite the dying breed....they still exist and (keep your fingers crossed!) may just be growing in numbers.