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General Questions on Sex

Does sexual intercourse hurt?

If a woman is sexually excited and relaxed the vagina will probably be moist enough for a man's penis to go in without hurting.  If it hurts, a water-based lubricant like KY Jelly can be used.

What is sexual intercourse?

When part of the penis is inside the vagina, it is called sexual intercourse.

What "counts" as losing virginity?

Different definitions exist, but most people agree that if you have had penetrative sex, then you've lost your virginity.

Can a girl become pregnant even without sexual intercourse?

Yes, if a man's penis goes near goes near a woman's vagina there may be some sperm in the fluid which comes out of the man's penis before he ejaculates.  This can lead to pregnancy or STD.

Can a girl get pregnant having sex standing up or in a bath?

Yes.  A girl can still become pregnant if she has sex standing up or in the bath.  Sexual intercourse, in any position or environment, can lead to pregnancy.

What kind of emotions does one experience during sex?

Varied emotions can be experienced.  In a trusting, loving relationship, sex can be a most intense and pleasurable physical and emotional experience a person can have.

What is a orgasm?

When sexual excitement builds up and reaches a peak a person might experience an orgasm, also called a climax or coming.  Sexual excitement might be experienced through masturbating, kissing, or sex with another person.

Is sex noisy?

Some people moan or groan with pleasure or even cry out or speak to each other.  There may also be some squelching and squishing noises that are perfectly normal, even if embarrassing and funny.

What is oral sex?

Oral sex is when one person licks or sucks another person's penis or vagina.  When oral sex is done to a man it is called a blowjob and to a woman it is called licking out.

Can a girl get pregnant from oral sex?

No.  A girl cannot get pregnant from giving or receiving oral sex.  Not even if she swallows his sperm.  But she can get STD and HIV.

Am I ready for sex?

You are ready for sex when you can take responsibility for its consequences and are in a relationship of mutual trust and commitment.  TEENAGERS ARE NOT READY FOR SEX.

What are the consequences of having sex?

Having sex can lead to pregnancy, and/or HIV or STDs.  There can also be emotional consequences to having sex.  It can change relationships and cause hurt, anger and resentment.

Will I be glad when I'm older that I lost my virginity at a young age?

It is difficult to say.  But, if you are a teenager, it would be better to wait till such a question won't actually bother you.

Can I talk to my partner about sex?

If you can't talk about sex to your partner, then you're not ready to have sex.  Honesty and responsibility are both very necessary.

Is there a "safe time" to have sexual intercourse?

There is no safe time to have unprotected sex if you wish to avoid pregnancy and STDs. Even unprotected sex during a girl's period can result in pregnancy, and it also increases the risk of HIV transmission.  If she has irregular periods, "safe" days can be particularly difficult to predict. This method also offers no protection from STDs such as HIV.

When does ovulation occur?

Ovulation approximately occurs in the middle of the cycle, i.e. duration of the cycle minus 14 days.  But this also varies depending on the duration of the menstrual cycle.

 

 

 

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